10 Hacks for Overwhelmed Moms: Take Back Your Sanity One Hack at a Time
- The Real Mom Diaries
- Mar 30
- 2 min read

Being a mom is a full-time job—on top of the other full-time job you might already have. Between the crying, the messes, the never-ending laundry, and the mom guilt, it’s easy to feel like you're running on fumes. If you're overwhelmed, overtired, and over it, you're not alone. This guide is here to help you breathe a little easier and reclaim some calm in the chaos.
1. Use the "Two-Minute Rule"
If a task takes less than two minutes to complete (loading the dishwasher, replying to an email, throwing laundry in the dryer), do it immediately. Knocking out small things keeps them from piling up and feeling like a mountain later.
2. Create a "Mom Command Center"
Designate a small area in your home for calendars, to-do lists, meal plans, and incoming mail. This keeps everything centralized, reduces clutter, and helps your brain rest from trying to remember 1,000 things at once.
3. Prep the Night Before
Lay out clothes, prep lunches, and pack bags before bed. Mornings are chaotic enough without needing to hunt down socks or scramble for lunch ideas while pouring cereal.

4. Practice "Good Enough" Parenting
You don’t need to be perfect. Your kids don’t need perfect. They need present, loving, and human. Let go of the guilt when you serve frozen nuggets or skip bath night. You’re doing just fine.
5. Time Block Your Day
Rather than chasing a never-ending to-do list, block your day into chunks: Morning Routine, Kid Time, Housework, Me Time, etc. This brings structure and helps you prioritize what truly matters.

6. Delegate Without Guilt
Your partner, your kids (yes, even toddlers!), and other family members can help. Give age-appropriate chores and ask for help when you need it. You were never meant to do it all alone.
7. Use Screen Time Wisely
Screen time can be a lifeline. Save it for when you need to cook, shower, or just take 10 minutes to breathe. A 20-minute episode of Bluey might just save your sanity.
8. Batch Cook and Freeze
Double your dinner recipe and freeze half. Boom—one less dinner to cook later this week. Slow cookers and sheet pan meals are your best friends.

9. Have a Go-To "Reset Ritual"
When the day feels like it's unraveling, have a simple routine that helps you reset. Maybe it’s stepping outside for 5 minutes, making a cup of tea, or blasting your favorite playlist while dancing with the kids.
10. Let Some Things Go (The Hardest of Mom Hacks)
Not everything has to be done today. Or perfectly. Or by you. Prioritize what matters most and give yourself permission to let the rest slide. You’re a mom, not a superhero (but also... kind of a superhero).
You are doing better than you think. Use these mom hacks as reminders that small changes lead to big peace. You’ve got this, mama.
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